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Malone shared, “The pandemic has affected our dating and our sexual culture. He also trains clinical professionals on topics related to sexual orientation, gender identity, and homo and queer eroticism. Malone’s experiences include being on the board of a local gay men’s sexual health clinic, participating in gay men’s health think tanks, and helping in the development of two trans health clinics. Before opening his private practice, he began his career as a sexuality educator and workshop facilitator at two different 2SLGBTQ+ organizations. Malone works with individuals, couples and diverse relationships. Reece Malone, a certified sex therapist, sex coach and sexuality educator based in Winnipeg, Manitoba. It’s been a particularly challenging time for single gay men, who are reporting higher levels of stress and feelings of loneliness.ĭobbernationloves chatted with Dr.
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